Every new year (January or Tishrei) should begin with blessings. This week’s Torah portion of Vayechi is replete with them. Jacob blesses Joseph’s children Ephraim and Menashe, basically adopting them as his own children. It is in this portion that we are given the great blessing that we bestow on our children, “May God make you like Ephraim and like Menashe” (Gen. 48:20) and the traditional blessing said before going to sleep: Hamalach Hagoel (Gen. 48:16).
Jacob also blesses each of his sons (Gen. 49:3-27). Curiously, the Torah states that Jacob “blessed each according to his [appropriate] blessing.” (Gen. 49:28). Why did the Torah not simply say that Jacob blessed each child? Why did each child get a different blessing?
It is from this that we learn that each of us has our own blessing. Jacob was able to see the potential in each of his children and give each the blessing designed to bring out their best selves. We understand that each of us is created with certain strengths and talents. Each of us has the ability to use those strengths and talents to their maximum potential. The question is whether we will.
There is the famous Hassidic tale of Rabbi Zusya of Hanapoli who came to his Chasidim [followers] with tears in his eyes. They asked him: “Reb Zusya, what’s the matter?
And he told them about a dream he had: “I learned the question that the angels will one day ask me about my life.”
His followers were puzzled. “Reb Zusya, you are pious. You are scholarly and humble. You have helped so many of us. What question about your life could be so terrifying that you would be frightened to answer it?”
Reb Zusya replied; “I have learned that the angels will not ask me, ‘Why weren’t you a Moses, leading your people out of slavery?’ and that the angels will not ask me, ‘Why weren’t you a Joshua, leading your people into the promised land?”‘ Reb Zusya sighed; “They will say to me, ‘Zusya, why weren’t you Zusya?'”
During the balance of 5775 and the coming year of 2015, this Torah portion reminds us not to look at what others may have, what others may do or what others may accomplish. Rather, we are to focus on our own strengths and rise to our own maximum potential. May you be blessed to realize your true potential in every way.
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